How to be a Grownup
- Anupama Bajaj
- Nov 17, 2016
- 2 min read
1. BE RESPONSIBLE
Most people think of a grownup as someone who takes responsibility for his/her own life. And being responsible shows your parents that you are growing up and can handle more freedom. Here are six ways to be a responsible person:
• Take care of your own affairs.
• Follow through on commitments.
• Answer for your own actions.
• Be trustworthy.
• Don't procrastinate.
• Always use your head and decide what is right or wrong.
2. CHOOSE TO DO THE RIGHT THING
Some decisions are easy to make, others are more complicated. When it's a choice between right and wrong, you don't need to weigh the pros and cons. Choosing to do the right thing is an act of self-respect and responsible decision making. Here are some guidelines for deciding what's right:
• What do my heart and conscience tells me?
• Could it hurt anyone - including me?
• Is it fair?
• How would I feel if somebody did it to me?
• How will I feel about myself later if I do it?
• What would adults I respect say about it?
3. RESPECT YOURSELF
Respecting ourselves helps us make good choices. And making good choices lifts our self-respect. Good self respect helps every aspect of our personal and social lives, and makes it a lot easier to get through the tough times. Here are some things that are almost guaranteed to make you respect yourself.
• Take responsibility for yourself.
• Always do what you believe is right.
• Be true to yourself and your highest values.
• Respect others and treat them right.
• Set goals and work to achieve them.
• Say "no" to negative pressures.
• Don't let others make your choices for you.
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